our actions

When we allow God’s power to pervade all our actions, and submit to his decrees, we shed all anxiety about the effects of our actions on others; we cease even to consider the effects of our actions. When we cease to consider the effects of our actions, we are adopting the attributes of God himself.

-Qushayri, "Risalah"

believe it or not our actions affect others. some people don't really consider that. me? well i consider other people's thoughts/feelings first, then mine. however that may not be all the time, most probably most of the time ^_^v